The cardinal sins of bookstagram, according to me

It’s the time of the year where I’m supposed to be thankful thankful thankful, and while I am thankful for so many things, including the most wonderful bookstagram community, I also feel like complaining. So here is a list of things that annoy me on bookstagram.

 Exhibit A: Actual real screenshot of a stranger asking me if I wanted to start a podcast with them. Notice that they had to introduce themselves because they had never talked to me before.

Exhibit A: Actual real screenshot of a stranger asking me if I wanted to start a podcast with them. Notice that they had to introduce themselves because they had never talked to me before.

 EXHIBIT B: CALL ME TOM PETTY BUT I MIGHT ENJOY PUTTING PHOTO THIEVES ON BLAST IN MY STORY AND THEN SAVING THEM TO MY HIGHLIGHTS.

EXHIBIT B: CALL ME TOM PETTY BUT I MIGHT ENJOY PUTTING PHOTO THIEVES ON BLAST IN MY STORY AND THEN SAVING THEM TO MY HIGHLIGHTS.

  1. When people ask for shoutouts - if I give a million shoutouts, are any of them meaningful? Genuine heartfelt shoutouts to people that inspire me or accounts I’m digging are great. I also love when other people give real shoutouts. However, if you have never talked to me before and then you message me asking for a shoutout? NOPE.

  2. In the same vein, when people who have never talked to me ask for random things. I’ve been asked to mail strangers books before (um, heard of a library?). By far the weirdest request was from someone I’d never spoken to asking me to start a podcast with them. WHAT? I don’t think that starting a podcast is a small undertaking that you do with a stranger. No thanks. (By the way, I do regularly mail books to friends, but I find asking a complete stranger to send me something a little odd.)

  3. When someone only posts 5 star reviews… come on! You can’t love EVERY single book you read! That’s absurd. Also, now your opinions can’t be trusted so great job. Congrats, you played yourself.

  4. When people I don’t know tag me in their post just cause they want me to see it, or for a “challenge”, along with a hundred other people. Hmm now I’m even less inclined to look at your post because I’m annoyed that I have to go remove this tag of me that has nothing to do with me. Bye.

  5. People who hijack your comments to try and get you to read their book or look at their page. I’m talking about the comments that are probably from bots that say things like “Nice pic! (Multiple emojis). Hey I think you’d really like this self-help memoir about my uneventful uninspiring life, please check out my page and give me a follow!” Yeah nope, deleted and now you’re blocked.

  6. Follow-for-shoutout sessions. PLEASE STOP WITH THESE. I don’t want to be part of a gimmick that tries to lure new accounts into following you and twelve of your closest internet friends for a little bitty chance at a shoutout. No.

  7. When reporters write clickbait-y articles about bookstagram, judging us for our creative outlets and acting like we don’t even read... PLEASE. I personally have read more books since joining BG than I probably did in the previous five years combined. This community inspires me to make reading a priority and part of my life like no other. And if someone does just want to post pretty pictures of books, who cares? I’m here to look at those pretty pictures. So GO AWAY CLOWN SHOW, we don’t want your judgement here.

  8. When people ask me how I grew my account in a demeaning way implying that I deserve to have fewer followers or that their account should obviously be doing as well as mine because I’m nothing special. I know I’m nothing special and I am always amazed that people are following me, but still, rude.

  9. When people I’ve never talked to ask really probing personal questions. If we’re friends, this is cool. If we’ve never (or barely) talked, I think it’s a little weird to ask me how I met my boyfriend and then continue on to ask me about my experience with Tinder and ask for intimate details about my entire dating history. Yes, this is a real experience on my bookstagram account (where I post about books and not dating advice). I try to reply to most messages and this was one of the few cases where I just had to stop responding.

  10. Accounts that post 5 photos a day… every single day… I’ve had to unfollow accounts like this because they end up overwhelming my feed and also, we get it, you get a lot of free books, and I’m sick of you throwing them in my face.

  11. And of course, the icing on the cake, the one annoyance to rule them all: when accounts steal my photos without asking. It seems like there are a lot of weird spam accounts now that only consist of bad grammar, nonsensical bios, and stolen photos. It’s even worse to me when it’s a biggish account or seemingly legit brand with lots of followers that doesn’t give proper credit, or acts so affronted when you ask them to remove the post. Saying “it’s just a photo” is putting down work that took me time and effort. I have recently learned that you can report copyright infringements to Instagram, although it’s a tedious form that asks “ARE YOU SURE” fifty thousand times so I’m not sure how many people are actually doing this. I usually do and then also BLOCK and put the account on blast in my stories because I just don’t care if I hurt their feelings anymore, or hurt their brand. You hurt your own brand by stealing photos. Done.

Phew! Feels good to get all that off my chest. I think I need to follow this post up with a giant list of all the things I love about BG, because the good definitely outnumbers the bad. I’ve made so many actual friends in this community, and the overwhelming positivity just makes me happy. Sometimes, though, I just need a good rant.

Overdue book review catch up

I am overdue for quite a few book reviews, so this post is going to be a big wrap of quite a few of them. Let's just get right to it, shall we?

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The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai

The Great Believers is split into two storylines with alternating chapters between them. The first follows Yale, an art museum curator and gay man living in Chicago during the height of the AIDS crisis. AIDS is rippling through his community killing off his friends and loved ones, including his good friend Nico. At the same time, he's trying to secure a large art deal that could be career making from Nico's aunt for the museum. The second storyline follows Nico's sister Fiona in the present day as she tries to find her estranged daughter in Paris while reflecting on how the AIDS crisis deeply affected her life.

I found both storylines compelling and enjoyed reading about both Yale and Fiona. Yale was a truly likable character and I was rooting for him so much. I just wanted things to work out for him, but his storyline fills you with a sense of dread as AIDS hits closer and closer to home. Fiona felt a little uneven - I felt like her character as seen by people like Yale was precocious and quite different than who she seemed to be in the present day, but I still found it believable enough.

I have heard this book compared to A Little Life and The Heart's Invisible Furies. For me, it was closer to The Heart's Invisible Furies, which I rated four stars. (ALL is one of my all time faves and basically nothing can compare.) This book started off a bit slow, but I was immediately drawn to Yale. I found Yale's story moving and I definitely shed some tears while reading this. If you liked ALL or THIF, I think it's worth giving this one a read. I gave it four stars. 

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Spinning Silver by Naomi Novik

I love Naomi Novik, y'all. I loved Uprooted and somehow I loved Spinning Silver even more. Her fairy-tale-ish fantasy books are just so readable and enjoyable and fun. Spinning Silver is a retelling of Rumpelstiltskin, kind of. But, it has three strong women for the main characters. Our main main character is Miryem. She's a moneylender's daughter, but her dad isn't very good at collecting his dues. She gets fed up and takes it upon herself to help the family business, and it turns out that she is quite good at it. She gets a reputation for being able to turn silver into gold, so much so that the "evil" Stayrk king takes notice and whisks Miryem off to do the same for him. Other characters include Irina, the daughter of a duke with some Staryk blood who ends up married to an evil tsar controlled by a fire demon, and Wanda, a poor girl from town who's alcoholic father sells her off to be Miryem's assistant. The storylines eventually converge and the whole book is magical. 

This book has many tropes, like Uprooted, but they somehow work for me. As usual, Novik does a great job with building an atmosphere including a fairy tale town, evil woods, and a frozen kingdom. Something about Novik's writing is just so fun for me to read. This book is a true escape and I loved it the whole time. If you like fantasy, and especially if you were a fan of Uprooted, I'd highly recommend this book. It got five stars from me.

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This is How It Always Is by Laurie Frankel

I know, I know, I'm late to the party on this one. It's been out for awhile and it took me a long time to pick it up but I'm really glad I did. It's about a family with five sons, except the youngest son, Claude, wants to be a girl from the time he is very young. It's about how the family deals with the challenges of raising a transgender child and the trials and tribulations they go through.

I don't have too much to say about this one, except that it is poignant and insightful and felt very honest and real. It will tug at your heartstrings and maybe even help you understand a different perspective. It also got the seal of approval from Brenda, my mom, and we don't have super overlapping favorite books, so that's a good sign that it should have wide appeal. If you like heartwarming family stories that teach you something, definitely pick this one up. I gave it four stars. 

Heartbreaker by Claudia Dey

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This book is weird. The plot is kind of weird, it's set in a cult (apparently a theme in my recent reading life) that is weird, and the writing is a little weird. The book is divided into three sections. The first is narrated by Pony Fontaine, daughter of Billie Jean Fontaine and "The Heavy". The family lives in "the territory" somewhere very far north and totally detached from the rest of society except for occasional supply shipments paid for by the blood of the territory's teens. Yeah. Billie Jean was an outsider who showed up alone and nearly dead to the territory 17 years ago. When she suddenly takes off and disappears, the residents of the territory look for her. Pony reflects on life up to this point.

The second part of the book is narrated by the family dog, who could apparently communicate with Billie Jean. See what I mean by weird? I actually started liking the writing more in this section. I found the writing in Pony's section to be unnecessarily confusing. Somehow it was more clear when narrated by a dog. The third section is narrated by a boy in the territory, Supernatural. Well, I guess he is a bit older than a boy. He's somewhere between the ages of 17 and 19, I think. I can't remember exactly. 

The book eventually reveals why Billie Jean left. It's a slow build up. I quite liked how everything came together in the end, but again, the whole thing was a weird experience. In a kind of good way? I rated this at three stars in the end. I actually really liked how it all came together. But it was still weird.  If you like cults or writing that is a little out of the ordinary, and stories that aren't entirely straightforward out of the gate, I'd recommend giving this a go. It's certainly unique.

Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro

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My first Ishiguro and boy, dude can write! His prose is beautiful and lyrical yet straightforward and approachable and entirely readable, somehow. He doesn't say anything extra but he says so much at the same time. 

This book is set in a school, so it's a good read for this time of year. It's narrated by Hailsham graduate Kathy, who now works as a "carer". Caring for what, we don't really know for awhile. Hailsham seems like an idyllic English boarding school where the students are taught to focus on art and creativity. However, something is off. You never hear about their parents or where the students are from. They don't seem to go home for Christmas. There is a big mystery about what is really going on at the school that is overarching and slowly and masterfully revealed. This book is lovely and eerie and moving at the same time. 

However... I saw the movie a long time ago, so I knew the big thing from the get-go, which kind of made it a bit less enjoyable for me. The book didn't have a huge emotional impact, because I already knew too much. I think if you haven't seen the movie, or even if you have, this is worth a read, but especially if you haven't because it has the potential for some big emotional moments. Because I had already seen the movie, I also found myself a little bored at times - kind of waiting for the story to get to the point, even though if I hadn't known everything already it would have been revealed quickly enough.

This book is certainly lovely and well written, and I understand why Ishiguro is considered a master of his craft. It almost has a little bit of a Secret History vibe purely because of the setting, which I appreciated. I'd recommend it to anyone who likes a bit of a mystery, wants to maybe cry, and likes books that are set in a school setting.

The Incendiaries and cult chat

Anyone else weirdly fascinated with cults? I know I'm not alone in the world because at least Georgia from My Favorite Murder is with me but how many of you book people are with me in thinking that cults are horribly interesting? Horrible because I mean they are tragic AF often, but I'm so interested in them. 

 JZ Knight, channeler of Ramtha. Photo from this Seattle Times article - http://blogs.seattletimes.com/politicsnorthwest/2014/05/09/democrats-again-under-fire-over-jz-knight-donations/

JZ Knight, channeler of Ramtha. Photo from this Seattle Times article - http://blogs.seattletimes.com/politicsnorthwest/2014/05/09/democrats-again-under-fire-over-jz-knight-donations/

In fact, Yelm, near where I live, has its very own cult! Ramtha's School of Enlightenment. The leader, J.Z. Knight (an old white lady), claims to channel Ramtha the Enlightened One - according to Wikipedia she even puts on an Indian accent when she channels him LOLOLOL. She runs a school out of Yelm. We've driven past many times, and you can't see in at all. The grounds are completely hidden with trees and there are security cameras everywhere. Creepy! They've been accused of using brainwashing and mind control. Ramtha's School does have a few celebrity followers, including Linda Evans and Salma Hayek. Hoping they don't track me down or do some Scientology shit for posting this - I mean I haven't said anything that hasn't been said and documented online before.

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Why am I talking about this? Well, The Incendiaries is about a girl's eventual integration into a cult. It follows Phoebe Lin and Will Kendall, students at a prestigious university. Phoebe feels responsible for her mom's death but doesn't tell anyone. Instead, she bottles up her feelings. Will is a transfer from a religious school who has recently turned away from Christianity, even though his religion previously defined his entire life. Will doesn't have money, so he doesn't quite fit in with the rich student body, but he finds ways to make it work. Will and Phoebe meet at a party, and Will is enchanted with Phoebe. They start dating, but Will feels like he is powerless when Phoebe starts spending more and more time with a cult leader who knows her dad. She doesn't see that it's a cult, or maybe she does and doesn't want to believe it. The group bombs some buildings (not a spoiler btw - this happens right away in the book) and Will tries to understand how Phoebe got to this place.

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I found this book enjoyable overall, but had a few qualms. I felt that it was somewhat overwritten to the point where I was confused about what was actually happening at times. Lots of metaphors and verbose descriptions made it hard to follow. I didn't feel deeply connected to the characters. It kind of felt like watching them through foggy glass. Weirdly, another book about a cult was similar in the overwrittenness - The Girls by Emma Cline - but that one was much worse. In The Incendiaries, it was tolerable and I was engaged enough to keep reading. I ended up putting down The Girls and I still don't understand how there was a bidding war between publishers over it. 

I think if you liked The Girls, or if you're into cults, you might like The Incendiaries as well. And, thanks to Riverhead Books for sharing it with me.

My favorite book-to-movie (or show) adaptations

This week with #bookishbloggersunite we're talking favorite adaptations. I'm sticking to cases where I've both read the book and seen the movie/show. I'll start out with a recent fave: Our Souls at Night by Kent Haruf, and the Netflix adaptation starring none other than Jane Fonda and Robert Redford. 

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Our Souls at Night was Kent Haruf's last book, published posthumously. Set in the fictional town of Holt, Colorado (like all of his novels), it evokes a clear sense of place so striking that I was nearly convinced to pick up and move. Small town Colorado seems difficult but charming. In Our Souls at Night, Addie, a widow, asks her neighbor Louis, a widower, if he would come over to sleep with her, simply to keep her company at night. She is lonely and nights are the hardest to get through. He accepts and it's the start of a sweet relationship, but not one without its challenges due to entire lives spent without one another. The characters often reflect back on what went wrong and what went right in their lives. The tone is both hopeful and melancholy, and I really loved this short book that packs a punch. 

The Netflix movie adaptation of this book came out shortly after I read it. It was cute enough that even Josh was sucked in, and stayed relatively true to the book. Jane and Robert are perfectly cast as Addie and Louis. It's just overall really great and sweet. Highly recommend both the book and the movie. 

 

Next up: the most basic answer of all time, Harry Potter! Duh. I grew up with these books - started reading them in third grade, and the last book came out my senior year of high school. I was the perfect age for them and I LOVED them so much. I can still remember sitting in the blue pit of my elementary school hearing the first book described and knowing immediately what I would spend my money on at the Scholastic Book Fair. Being forced to wait between books and being the perfect age for HP was an experience that definitly shaped my childhood, and one that I'm eternally grateful for. 

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The movies have their own unique magic. The books are better (obvi I'm going to say that) but the movies are their own thing. For some reason I associate watching the first two movies with being sick or cold, cuddled up on my parents' couch and eating chicken noodle soup. I need to go back and rewatch them all... I feel an HP weekend coming on!

I don't have book pictures for my next favorite adaptations because I read them before I took book pictures and I also don't have physical copies of the books - just ebooks. Yes, there was a time in my life when I read ebooks! It was when the B&N Nook was newish and I got one for Christmas. I still have that first generation Nook! I just don't use it anymore, really. Anyway, the adaptations are Game of Thrones and Gone Girl. GoT is epic. The books, the show, everything, and I'm a super fan. I'm also bitter that the last season is taking so long, and that George will likely die before he finishes the series. Like why is he off writing random side stories? Finish the damn series George! Prioritize! 

Gone Girl makes the list because, well, it is the original. It is the unreliable narrator thriller that showed us all what thrillers could be. I feel like so many thrillers these days want to be the next Gone Girl but that ship has sailed. There can only be one. You did it, Gillian Flynn. And the adaptation was perfect with perfect casting. 

There have been quite a few adaptations I've enjoyed without reading the books. Recently those include To All the Boys I've Loved Before, which was so stinking cute, and Crazy Rich Asians, which was extravagant and mostly wonderful (but a bit tropey - the down-to-earth girl who is above caring about money - meh about that). I went ahead and watched these without reading the books, because I knew the books weren't for me (not a big reader of YA in general, and attempted Crazy Rich Asians but couldn't get into it) and I have a higher tolerance for sappy in movies. However, I do try to read the book first when I can.

I'd love to hear about your favorite adaptations! Let me know if I'm missing out on any of your favorites, and if I need to read the books in order to watch the movies. 

Review and my movie cast for The Banker's Wife

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Do you ever have books where the whole time you're reading them, you're just thinking about how great they would be as a movie? Or even, how much better the movie would be? The Banker's Wife by Cristina Alger is one of those books for me. This review is going to be half review, half dream movie casting.

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The Banker's Wife is about, well, a banker's wife, but also a journalist and the banker's assistant and the journalist's fiancé. When Matthew Lerner's plane crashes in the alps (he is the banker, at the bank Swiss United) with one of his female clients that his wife Annabel had never heard of, she just has a gut feeling that it wasn't an accident. Meanwhile, journalist Marina Tourneau is engaged to Grant Ellis, the son of a powerful businessman who is about to announce his run for president. Marina's mentor leaves her with information about the shady dealings of Swiss United before he is found dead in his home. Her findings tie a lot of powerful people to some unethical and illegal to Swiss United.

Annabel races to uncover the truth about Matthew, while Marina must decide how much of the Swiss United story to expose. Meanwhile, Matthew's beautiful young assistant Zoe must hide from the powerful forces at Swiss United who want to make sure she doesn't know too much. 

This book is a fast paced thriller, and I enjoyed it, but the lack of place and character development kept me from really loving it. However, I can totally picture it as a movie! So, I'm going to give you the movie cast you never asked for. First up, our main lady, the banker's wife herself, Annabel. She's described as a redhead, and beautiful, Matthew only has eyes for her, yadda yadda. But she's also a little bit smarter than the other bankers give her credit for, and she loves art. My choice: Emma Stone!

Next up, we have Marina. Marina was recently engaged to golden boy Grant Ellis, and struggling with her decision to leave her budding career behind and play trophy wife. Her description said black hair and blue eyes, and referred to her being pale so... basically everyone in this book is supposed to be white (of course, the usual), but I don't care so I'm going with Kerry Washington because she would be perf for this role. Serving up some Olivia Pope fierceness as a badass woman journalist crumbling the patriarchy and exposing hideous acts of powerful men.

Zoe is beautiful, young, French, and as is a trend with these women, smarter than men expect. I don't know many blonde French actresses (pretty sure it said blonde? Going with it) but I do think Clemence Poesy would be great.

And the last person I'm going to cast is Jonas. Head of Swiss United, mastermind of schemes. I think Steven Weber would be great for this. Pretends to be nice but secretly (or not secretly) an evil villain, head banker, asshole extraordinaire. 

Most of the rest of the cast would be sleazy bankers, golden boy politicians, and crooked businessmen. I don't really care to cast them.

So what do you think? Do I have a future as a casting director? I think Hollywood would be silly not to hire me. They'd really miss out. Also, if you've read this book, let me know if you agree with my choices!

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August TBR and why TBRs aren't my usual thing

Hi y'all! Here for my third blog post and hosting a group of Book Riot Insiders who blog together weekly! We will all be talking August TBRs - click the icon at the end of my posts to see their posts too. 

I did an unusual thing this month and made a TBR (I realize this is book lingo - if you aren't in the bookish world as much as I am, TBR stands for "to be read") stack. I made it extra big, though - like big enough that I know I won't read all the books.

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My August TBR includes a wide variety, because I'm a mood reader, and I will need lots of books to choose from. Quite few of these books were gifted to me for free from publishers (thanks to Viking for The Great Believers, Putnam for Charlotte Walsh Likes to Win and Where the Crawdad Sings, Little, Brown for Okay Fine Whatever, Random House for How to Love a Jamaican and Spinning Silver, and Crown Publishing for OK, Mr. Field). A few of these I've already started and not gotten far into - A Manual for Cleaning Women and The Essex Serpent. The Book of M was a Canada impulse buy because the back cover made it sound up my alley. I recently read and loved Plainsong, the book before Eventide by Kent Haruf. I also recently loved This Must Be the Place by Maggie O'Farrell, and I've heard people rave about her memoir so I bought it. 

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I don't usually do TBRs because I'm SUCH a mood reader. It's the same reason there are books I've been wanting to read forever but keep just not getting around to, like Cutting for Stone. I just really have to be in the right mood for a book, or else I don't enjoy it. I keep picking up Cutting for Stone, and it keeps not speaking to me. I haven't actually started it - I just pick it up, add it to a pile of "soon" books, and then ignore it. 

But this month... I'm going to try. I'm hoping that this large and very varied stack will help remedy the mood situation. We have fantasy, we have memoir, we have two very different collections of short stories, we have contemporary fiction, we have lit fic... hopefully most of the books I reach for this month will be from this pile, because I tried to make this pile out of books I want to read SOON. Prioritization is important, right?

 Bonus picture of a subset of my giant stack with napping floof with a tooth you can see if you look closely. Love her little fangs. 

Bonus picture of a subset of my giant stack with napping floof with a tooth you can see if you look closely. Love her little fangs. 

I have the best of intentions, but who can say what will happen. Maybe I'll go to the bookstore and see the second book of the Southern Reach Trilogy and want to read it right then. Maybe I'll get a sudden burst of motivation and desire to read a big classic (looking at you, Count of Monte Cristo). Maybe I won't read at all.

At the very least, I'll try this month. I'll try this TBR thing, again, and see how it goes. 

Be sure to click the icon below to see posts from the other bloggers in the #bookishbloggersunite group!

Book review: This Must Be the Place by Maggie O'Farrell

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Thought I would start off my blog reviews on a high note... a very high note... a FIVE STAR BOOK high note! That's right, this book earned my notoriously hard to earn fifth star! Meaning, I loved it, I lived for it, I want everyone to read it and I especially want everyone to love it as much as I did.

What is the book, you ask? Or, you don't, because it's in the title. The book is This Must Be the Place, and the brilliant amazing author is Maggie O'Farrell. I heard about this book on the What Should I Read Next podcast from the book blog queen herself, Anne Bogel. Usually I like her recommendations, so when I saw this at my local favorite bookstore (Browsers, pictured), I impulse bought it.

 The two impulse buys on my Browsers trip

The two impulse buys on my Browsers trip

I cannot say enough good things about this book. The writing, the way she weaves together the stories of the characters so that you feel like you got to read 10 different stories (even though they're all anchored together with our main character, Daniel), the way she writes about relationships, and the story. The STORY! The characters! I just fell so in love with this book, I immediately went out and bought two more of her books after finishing it.

This Must Be the Place is about a marriage, and a family. It's also about a man, the man in the marriage, Daniel Sullivan. Daniel is a New Yorker who went to school in England and now lives in a remote home in Ireland with his wife Claudette and their two children. Daniel has two older children from a previous marriage that he never talks to or get to see, but not really by choice. Claudette also has one older son from a previous marriage who is off at boarding school.

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Claudette, as it turns out, is an ex-movie-star turned recluse. She disappeared, just straight up ghosted society, in the middle of filming a movie by running away with her son, and nobody knows where she went. Daniel stumbles upon Claudette when he journeys to Ireland to collect his late grandfather's ashes, and voila, they fall in love and he moves there to be with her.

When Daniel heads back to the US for his father's 90th birthday, he hears a radio program speaking of a long lost lover from his past as if she's been dead for awhile. He looks into it, and she has, and he had no idea... as Daniel spends more time away from Claudette, he tries to confront some things from his past, including his far away children, and gets caught up uncovering the truth about his ex-love's death.

This story is told from multiple perspectives and jumps around in time. I just LOVED the structure of this book. For example, one of Daniel's kids loves footnotes. A chapter focused on him is full of footnotes. Another chapter is entirely full of descriptions of items to be auctioned off that used to belong to Claudette. It's so unique! And, each character has their own story, all related to Daniel or Claudette in some way, but their own so that you feel like you got to read many more books than one by the end, somehow. Maggie O'Farrell's language is entirely readable but also nerdy? Somehow? Is that a thing - nerdy language? It helps that Daniel is a linguist.

For a story about a marriage, this book is so gripping. I didn't want it to end. It was an immensely satisfying book, without a contrived intentionally satisfying ending. The way the story built, the realness of the characters (even those you only spend a little time with) - O'Farrell is so talented. So many times entire books will be about a character and I'll never feel connected or invested in them. With these characters, I was immediately invested. They immediately felt real.

This book tells a story of a complex relationship, and of a man coping with grief and confronting his demons. I highly recommend this to, well, everyone! I can't wait to read more of O'Farrells writing, and This Must Be the Place is going down as one of my favorites. 

Let me know in the comments if you've read this, what you thought of it, if you're going to read it, or if you've read any of her other books! Happy reading!

 Browsers haul of the day + Izzy

Browsers haul of the day + Izzy

New blog who dis

Hi y'all! As a few of you may recall, I had a not-so-popular, not-so-used blog quite a few months ago. I had big plans and good intentions for that little ol' blog, but alas, my ideas and my follow through did not come to fruition. 

 This time though... this time will be different! First of all, I switched platforms to Squarespace. My previous platform didn't allow for subscribers, so now I'm slightly more motivated. Secondly, I'm going to join some Book Riot Insiders for a bookish bloggers unite tag. We all will be writing posts about the same themes each week. I'm hoping this camaraderie gives me an extra motivation boost to stay active on here. Third, I'm almost to 10k followers on instagram! By almost I mean I still need to gain 1,500 more followers, but that seems reasonable?! And 10k means you get the swipe up option in stories, so I think the ability to easily link to posts will make me more motivated to write them!

My current plan for this space is that it will be mostly books. However, it's my blog so I'mma do what I want and maybe sometimes post not books.

Hope you will join me in a new adventure/new space! Oh, and here are some pictures of my face, in case you don't know me!

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